I’m here to talk about mistakes. That might sound a bit intense and depressing, but I don’t want you to get upset about it because it’s not scary and I’m doing it because it will hopefully benefit you. Before you wonder what *mistakes* I’m going to be addressing, let me tell you: I’m going to be talking about blowjob mistakes.

When it comes to sex (and other things in life) it can be helpful to hear what not to do as much as it can be helpful to hear some tips and tricks. Click through the gallery to see eight common blowjob mistakes:

1. Literally Blowing

When people hear the term *blowjob,* they might think it involves literally blowing on the penis. After all, why would it have a name like that? Some people might be into a bit of blowing, but realize that there’s more to the technique than that. It really should be called a *suckingjob* but that name never caught on. Image source: Instagram/delvabi

2. Not Communicating With Bae

Before you say, *I have something in my mouth so how can I?* consider that using bae’s moans, body language, and facial expressions can be counted in communicating. What’s more, your SO might vocalize how he’s feeling without prompting. Pay attention. If he’s on the quiet side, there’s nothing wrong with pulling away to make sure bae is enjoying what you’re doing. You want him to feel good so make sure he’s okay. Image source: Instagram/r3trospect1vethoughts

3. Wearing A Lot Of Lip Product

This is something that you might not think about, but all it takes is one BJ where you’ve sported over-lined lips and made your partner’s crotch look like a dirty makeup wipe. There are a lot of lip products that claim to be transfer-resistant and long-wearing, but do you really want to use this opportunity to put them to the test? Getting lipstick everywhere isn’t going to add to the appeal so take it easy. Image source: Instagram/girl_gang_edits

4. Not Using Your Hands

Sure, this might be classed as a blowjob, but why shouldn’t you use your hands? Adding a bit of hand action can actually take the feelings of pleasure to the next level. Some might find it difficult to multitask. Know that you don’t have to do anything complicated. Simple rubbing and stroking are often enough. Image source: Instagram/katemakinson

5. Not Minding Your Teeth

Teeth can be very sharp and we’re dealing with a very sensitive area of another person’s body so watch out. If you’re curious about whether your partner might like some *light* nibbling, make sure that you ask before you do it. You don’t want to surprise the poor guy, especially if he ends up not being into it. In general, watch out for teeth because they can skin or poke an area as you change angles. That can be painful AF. Image source: Instagram/martynapas

6. Trying To Go Too Deep

You might want to try deep throating, but it’s something to approach with caution. Same goes with going deep in general. You don’t want to be gagging and/or feeling like you’re going to puke. It’s not enjoyable for you and seeing you this way likely won’t be enjoyable for your partner. So, don’t feel press to put everything in your mouth. Bae can still have an *amazing* blowjob will a couple of inches being utilized. Image source: Instagram/_spanienladen_

7. Forgetting About The Balls

You might think that you have a lot to work with down there. What can end up happening is that you focus on the tip of the penis and forget about everything else. The balls could end up being the last thing on your mind. They’re neglected and sensitive which means they deserve attention, too. While you’re performing a BJ, use your hands to *explore* the rest of the crotch. Image source: Instagram/ashlyn_rose26

8. Failing To Breathe

Yeah, I know that your mouth is going to have *something* in it, but your mouth isn’t your only air passage. You have a nose. Use it. Some people might have the natural tendency when they get nervous and preoccupied with performing a BJ to not breathe deeply enough. You don’t want to be passing out midway through the act so ensure that you’re getting ample air. If you need to come up for a breather, do it. It’s sexier than feeling lightheaded. Image source: Instagram/dasha_beauty_trojmiasto

What are your blowjob tips? Let us know in the comments!